Tiktok Trend - When They Are Too Busy To Text But My Ex ... - May 2025

The “When they’re too busy to text but my ex...” trend popped up around May 2025 and quickly became a favorite across TikTok and Instagram Reels.

It’s quick, sarcastic, and super relatable — a perfect mix for anyone who’s ever rolled their eyes at the classic excuse: “I’m just really busy right now.”

If you create content around dating, relationships, reactions, or just love a bit of dry humor — this trend is made for you.

What’s this trend all about?

This trend uses the audio original sound by dean🎧 — a catchy 3–5 second clip from “Don’t Call Me Up” by Mabel. The moment the beat drops and the vocals say “no good without you,” creators deliver a facial reaction that screams: “Really?”

On-screen text delivers the punchline: someone is “too busy” to reply, but an ex with a much messier life somehow always found time to communicate.

It’s the kind of side-eye energy that makes people hit replay.

What kind of videos people are making

Example 1: A guy looks skeptical, then touches his lip and looks down — the text says his ex had another girlfriend and still texted back.
Example 2: A girl in a car looks up and closes her eyes with frustration — same text, same vibe.
Example 3: A guy smiles, drops his hand from his mouth, and points at the camera — his version says the ex called every night before bed while juggling another relationship.

Want to use it? Here’s the step-by-step

Think of a moment where someone said they were “too busy” to text or call.
Remember an ex (or anyone!) who had way more going on but still made the effort — this is your comparison.
Go to TikTok and use the trending sound.
Add text like: “When they say they’re too busy to text me, but my ex was in another relationship and still called me every night.”
Record your reaction: side-eye, eye roll, smirk, finger point — anything that shows “I know what’s up.”
Keep the video short (3–6 seconds max) and make sure your expression hits right as the beat drops.
Add a caption like: “It’s never about time, it’s about priority 👀” or “Anyone else??”
Use hashtags like: #toobusy #datingtrend #extextedme #relationshiphumor #fyp

When it works best (and why)

This trend shines when it’s funny, confident, and just a little bit spicy.

Keep your story believable — even better if it’s a little ridiculous.
Your reaction should match the vibe: unimpressed, amused, or “I see through you.”
Make sure the text is visible and easy to read — people need to catch it in one go.
Use good lighting and a clear shot of your face — this is all about the reaction.
Jump on comments — the more people engage, the more it gets shown.

When it doesn’t work (and why)

This trend is simple — but here’s how people miss the mark:

Text is too vague or generic — make the comparison juicy!
Your reaction doesn’t land — flat expression = scroll past.
You use the wrong part of the song — make sure it’s the same viral snippet.
Your text disappears too fast — viewers won’t wait around if they can’t read it.
Too negative or bitter — keep it witty, not whiny.

Ready to post yours? Think of your own “too busy” moment, make it visual, and hit record. Bonus points for drama 👀

More examples

@gusweatherss
♬ original sound - dean🎧

@orie.karson
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♬ original sound - dean🎧

@kennasecretspam2 am i funny #foryoupage ♬ original sound - dean🎧

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